Setting Realistic Goals: A Guide to Sustainable Recovery

Sobriety is more than just quitting alcohol and drugs. It's an ongoing process of embracing a substance-free life and improving yourself. As SAMHSA puts it, it is a process of change where one strives to lead a more self-directed life, working to improve their wellness and health while trying to reach their full potential. One of the best ways to support this ongoing process of recovery is by setting realistic goals.

Realistic goals serve as a roadmap for positive change and contribute to the sustainability of a substance-free life. They provide direction, focus and motivation that you need to stay sober. Without SMART goals, you'll quickly fall into old habits and dysfunctional lifestyles. This is especially true since recovery comes with excessive free time and many temptations.

What Are SMART Goals in Addiction Recovery?

SMART goals are a framework for setting Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound objectives.

Specific

The goal should be specific about what you want to achieve in your recovery and include factors like what should be done and who will do it.

Example

The goal clearly outlines the type of exercise (energetic walking) and the duration (30 minutes) on each of the five specified days.

Measurable

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It should be measurable so you are able to track the progress to see how far you've come. Think of how you'll measure your progress and how you'll know when the goal is accomplished.

Example

The goal includes a measurable component, as progress can be tracked by recording the number of days per week the individual engages in the specified exercise.

Achievable

The goal should also be achievable in the sense that it's realistic and attainable in your current circumstances. Consider whether the goal is reasonable and within reach and if you have the resources needed to achieve it.

Example

The goal acknowledges the need for gradual progression, starting with a manageable goal and allowing for an increase in intensity as stamina improves.

Relevant

It should be relevant and in line with your values, aspirations, and overall recovery journey. It should make sense for your recovery journey and be consistent with your short-term and long-term goals.

Example

The goal aligns with the overarching objective of improving physical and mental well-being during recovery.

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Time-Bound

Time-bound, so it adds urgency and helps you stay focused. Your goal has to have a deadline or timeline for when it should be completed.

Example

The goal includes a specific timeframe, starting the following Monday and continuing for the next three months, providing a clear deadline for the specified action.

Keep in mind that goal-setting is subjective. What works for another person may not work for you. So, you want to create goals that make sense for you and your sobriety journey. If you're having difficulty creating realistic and attainable goals, have your peer, mentor, or addiction treatment professionals help. It's also good to seek medical advice before making significant lifestyle changes, especially if they involve physical activities or dietary adjustments.

Why Goal-Setting is Important in Recovery

Setting realistic goals in addiction recovery is crucial for several reasons:

Goals Give your Focus and Direction

Goals provide a clear direction for your recovery journey. They help you focus on specific actions and behaviors contributing to positive change. Without goals, you might feel aimless or uncertain about your path, making it easier to revert to old habits.

Goals Motivate You to Stay Committed to Recovery

Goals act as motivators, giving you a reason to stay committed to your recovery. They create a sense of purpose and achievement, boosting your self-esteem and confidence as you progress.

Goals Give you Structure and Routine

Recovery often comes with excess free time, which can be a risk factor for relapse. Setting goals helps establish a structured routine, filling your time with meaningful and constructive activities that support your well-being.

Measurable Goals Allow you to Track Progress

SMART goals, being specific and measurable, allow you to track your progress objectively. This measurement helps you celebrate achievements, identify areas for improvement, and stay accountable to yourself and others.

Realistic and Attainable goals Prevent Frustrations and Disappointments 

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SMART goals emphasize setting objectives that are achievable and realistic. This prevents setting yourself up for failure, frustration, or disappointment. Realistic goals ensure that you are making gradual, sustainable changes in line with your current circumstances.

Goals Introduce Accountability Aspect

The time-bound aspect of SMART goals introduces accountability. Having a deadline encourages you to stay committed and prevents procrastination. It adds a sense of urgency, reminding you of the importance of taking action within a specified timeframe.

Goals Help Prevent Complacency

Recovery is an ongoing process, and setting goals prevents complacency. It encourages you to continuously strive for improvement, avoiding stagnation and the potential risk of relapse.

Goals Are Great for Holistic Well-being

Goals can address various aspects of your life, promoting holistic well-being. Whether it's physical health, mental health, relationships, or personal development, setting goals allows you to work on multiple dimensions of your life simultaneously.

Goal-Setting Tips in Recovery

Recovering from substance use disorder can be overwhelming, especially during the first few months. It takes a while to achieve a true sense of stability and sanity after abusing drugs and alcohol. Here are some tips for goal-setting to help you navigate recovery:

Most importantly, embrace the idea that progress is more important than perfection. Setbacks are a natural part of recovery; the key is learning from them and moving forward. If you're struggling with setting realistic goals in recovery or maintaining sobriety, reach out for help. Our mental health professionals can help offer personalized guidance, strategies, and coping mechanisms tailored to your needs.

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Love, Trust & Recovery: Navigating Intimacy After Addiction

Relationships, dating, and marriage are complicated enough. But addiction adds another layer of complexity to the dynamics. It creates emotional distance between partners, takes more time away from the couple, and affects sexual health, among other things. This explains why couples with partners who abuse alcohol or drugs report problems with intimacy after addiction.

They argue and fight a great deal, and the fighting itself can create a situation or environment in which the partner with drug or drinking problems abuses these substances to manage their stress. It's like an unending cycle where the conflicts lead to substance use and vice-versa. Over time, substance abuse destroys trust, communication, love, and stability, all of which are the foundation of healthy relationships.

So, it doesn't come as a surprise that those in the early stages of addiction recovery face the challenge of recovering their intimate relationships. Since substance use comes with isolation, secrecy, and social distancing, spouses in recovery have to start from ground zero when it comes to rebuilding their intimate relationship. This means rebuilding love, trust, and communication from the foundation up.

How to Navigate Intimacy after Addiction

The good news is that there's hope for rebuilding intimacy after addiction. It's a challenging journey, but with commitment and the right strategies, loved ones can reconnect and build a stronger, healthier relationship.

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Here are some practical steps to help you navigate intimate relationships in recovery:  

Don't start a New Relationship.

Valentine's Day is around the corner, and it's natural to want to have someone by your side. However, experts recommend waiting at least a year or more before starting new intimate relationships. This allows them to focus on themselves and their recovery. And that makes sense because it's hard enough to focus on oneself in recovery – let alone factoring in another person's needs. Besides, the emotional challenges that come with relationships can trigger relapse.

Be Honest and Direct

The conflicts that you experience in your relationship don't go away when you stop abusing substances. So, both partners need to own their role in the conflict as you begin the repair process. Take an inventory of your behaviors and account for them. Be honest and direct with your loved one when talking with them about the impact that the addiction had on the relationship.

Focus on Your Recovery Journey

A strong foundation for a healthy relationship begins with your well-being. Reflect on the progress you've made during your addiction treatment program, and identify the coping skills and self-care strategies that work for you. This can include exercising, proper nutrition, a good night's sleep, etc.

You can also incorporate mindfulness practices, journaling, yoga, etc., for your mental health. If you're yet to join a 12-step program like Alcoholics Anonymous or Cocaine Anonymous, do so and stick with it. Such groups have been shown to provide peer-level support that helps people stay sober long-term.

Take it Slow

Intimacy won't happen overnight. Allow time for both partners to adjust, rediscover themselves, and learn to navigate life without the crutch of substances. This deliberate pace helps build a solid foundation for a healthier connection, ensuring that you and your loved one are emotionally prepared for the challenges and joys of rebuilding intimacy.

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Build a Culture of Open and Honest Communication

One key aspect of fixing intimate relationships after addiction is learning to communicate feelings healthily. Make it a habit to share your feelings, concerns, and aspirations with your partner, and encourage them to do the same. Discuss the challenges and victories of your recovery journey openly to foster a deeper understanding of each other's experiences. Effective communication builds trust and sets the stage for a more intimate connection based on mutual support and empathy.

Set Realistic Expectations

Know that he process will have its ups and downs, and being patient with yourself and your partner is essential. Recognize that both of you are on a journey of growth and recovery, and there will be moments of vulnerability. Celebrate small victories, acknowledge progress, and communicate openly about challenges.

Spend Quality Time Together

Be involved in activities that promote emotional connection and create positive shared experiences. Quality time allows both partners to rekindle the joy and companionship that may have been overshadowed during the challenges of addiction. Whether exploring shared hobbies, going out on a date, enjoying nature, or simply having meaningful conversations, dedicating time to each other strengthens the emotional bonds crucial for rebuilding intimacy.

Reintroduce Intimacy Gradually

Approach the reintroduction of intimacy with patience and a gradual mindset. Physical and emotional intimacy may have been strained during the period of addiction, and it's essential to take small, deliberate steps. Begin with gestures of affection, such as holding hands or hugging, and gradually progress as both partners feel more comfortable and connected. This gradual reintroduction allows for a sense of safety and ensures that both individuals are on the same page as they navigate this sensitive aspect of the relationship.

Establish Healthy Boundaries

Clearly define and communicate what is acceptable behavior and what is not. This includes setting limits on substance use, fostering open communication about personal space and individual needs, and respecting each other's boundaries. Healthy boundaries create a sense of security within the relationship and contribute to rebuilding trust, an essential component of intimate connections.

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Do Away With Toxic Relationships

While your attention might be on fixing strained relationships, it's also an excellent time to eliminate unhealthy relationships. For instance, if you have friends or family who still use or don't support your recovery journey, or if you are in a romantic relationship that perpetuates toxicity, it may be time to consider cutting ties. Toxic relationships can be bad for well-being, and hinder personal growth and recovery progress.

Seek Couples Therapy

Couple's therapy is critical in helping you navigate the complexities of intimacy after addiction. It can help you set relationship goals and facilitate communication, address underlying issues, provide tools for conflict resolution, and promote emotional connection.

At More Than Rehab, we offer comprehensive addiction treatment programs that recognize the importance of addressing not only individual recovery but also the dynamics of relationships. If you're having a hard time staying sober or navigating intimacy in recovery, we can help. Contact us today to begin your journey toward lasting recovery and healthier relationships.

 

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New Year, New Beginnings: Tips for Sobriety in 2024

The dawn of a new year symbolizes a fresh start. A chance to redefine your path and embrace positive changes. It is a good time to prioritize your physical and mental health. This could mean making a choice to get help for alcohol abuse or reaffirming your commitment to a life of sobriety. As the calendar turns, it allows you to adopt new habits and routines that will make you feel great about yourself.

While New Year’s resolutions and recovery goals aren’t always easy to stick to, they are definitely worth the effort. Breaking free from the crutches of addiction offers a renewed sense of purpose and empowerment. It sets the stage for a healthier, happier life.

Here are Some Tips to Promote Your Sobriety in 2024:

Set SMART Goals

SMART goals are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. This goal-setting framework ensures your goals are actionable and set you up for success. SMART goals are:

  1. Specific: What you want to achieve. So, instead of "be sober," or “stop bad habit,” try "attend three support group meetings per week."
  2. Measurable: The goal should be quantifiable – like “stay in sober living for ten days” or “track my physical health for a month.”
  3. Agreeable: Set goals that resonate with your desires, values, and commitments to recovery.
  4. Realistic: The goals should be attainable considering your commitments, circumstances, and resources.
  5. Time-bound: Set deadlines for each goal. "Go for an hour-long walk every day in January" is more effective than "exercise more."

Some good examples of SMART goals are:

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Avoid Triggers

Identify situations, people, or places that tempt you to drink or use. Once you have, develop a coping mechanism to avoid them proactively. For example, if certain friends or family members trigger cravings, limit contact or reschedule outings. Or if bars, parties, and other high-risk environments make you crave substances, opt for sober-friendly activities like attending concerts, going to the movies, or joining a club centered around your favorite hobby.

The same principle applies to your emotions. Cravings often arise during times of stress, anger, or sadness, so you want to learn healthy coping mechanisms like talking to a trusted friend, journaling, mindfulness meditation or deep breathing. 

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Exercise

Exercise has many health benefits even in addiction recovery. Experts believe regular exercise can serve as a healthy stand-in for substance abuse. That’s because substances and physical activity work on the same brain parts. They both activate the reward center, which triggers the release of feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin.

As a result, exercise can help curb cravings, ease withdrawal, improve sleep, and replace triggers. It also strengthens your mind and body, helps with weight loss, and facilitates stress relief, which is essential in maintaining long-term sobriety.

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Examples of exercises that can help include cardio or aerobic exercises like running, swimming, light gardening, hiking, and dancing. You can also try strength or resistance workouts like weightlifting, lunges, push-ups, and some types of yoga.

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Set Boundaries

Boundaries help protect your well-being and maintain healthy relationships. And it doesn’t need to be complicated; it can be as simple as saying "no" to parties, potentially risky behaviors, or even things you hadn’t planned for.

For example, if you're having difficulty striking a work-life balance and a colleague asks you to take on an additional task, it's okay to say, "I appreciate the opportunity, but my plate is full right now. I won't be able to take on any more projects." Or, in the case of a romantic relationship, you could say "I value our time together, but I also need some time alone to recharge. I hope you understand".

You can also allocate specific time for self-care activities, whether reading a book, taking a long bath, cleaning your house, or going for a walk. Communicate to others that this time is non-negotiable for you.

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Connect with Others

Joining a support group connects you with people who understand your struggles and celebrate your victories. Look for support groups specific to your needs, whether a general sobriety group, one focused on a particular substance or even one tailored to your age or background. Examples include Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and online forums and communities dedicated to recovery. Building relationships with loved ones is equally essential for a robust support system.

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Find New Hobbies

Doing activities you enjoy can distract you from cravings, boost your mood, and build a fulfilling life beyond alcohol or drugs. Consider exploring new hobbies that align with your interests and provide alternative sources of enjoyment and fulfillment. This could include making art, cooking, playing a musical instrument, or joining a recreational sports league.

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Start a Recovery Journal

Maintaining a recovery journal can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and progress tracking. It allows you to document your journey, celebrate achievements, and identify areas for improvement.

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Keep a Positive Mindset

A positive outlook arms you with the mental strength you need to recover from relapses, setbacks and unavoidable obstacles that arise in your recovery journey.

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Get Help at More Than Rehab

If you're finding it challenging to overcome addiction or if the strategies and tips mentioned earlier aren't providing the support you need, it may be time to seek additional professional help. More Than Rehab has a team on call, ready to provide the assistance and support you require on your journey to recovery. Contact us today to learn more about addiction treatment at More Than Rehab.

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Venturing into the Modern Dating Scene With Sobriety as a Game-Changer

Venturing into the modern dating scene with a newly-found sobriety can really be a game-changer. Dating is an important part of any romantic relationship. It allows you to learn more about your potential partner and also lets you discover who you are.

But the dating world can be a double-edged sword for those in addiction recovery. On the one hand, it offers the promise of new beginnings, the potential for genuine connections, and the thrill of getting to know someone on a deeper level. On the other hand, it can be a minefield of triggers, pressures, and societal norms that revolve around alcohol and other substances.

But the good news is that dating is not only possible while maintaining your sobriety; it can also lead to supportive and fulfilling relationships. This article will explore strategies and tips to help you navigate the dating scene while safeguarding your sobriety. We’ll also discuss sober empowerment and the challenges and benefits of being upfront about your journey. 

Dating in Early Recovery and the Initial Apprehensions

Re-entering the modern dating scene while in recovery can trigger a wave of initial dating apprehensions, and it's perfectly natural to feel this way. You may experience: 

Fear of Relapse

One of the most significant concerns you may face is the fear of relapse. You've worked hard to achieve and maintain your sobriety, and the thought of entering a dating scene filled with opportunities for triggers can be anxiety-inducing. You worry that the emotional rollercoaster of dating might compromise the stability you've fought so hard to establish.

Echoes of Past Relationships

For many, past relationships may have been entangled with addiction, pain, and unhealthy patterns. The echoes of these past experiences can cast doubt on your ability to engage in healthy, meaningful relationships. You may wonder if it's possible to break free from the shackles of your history and forge a different, healthier path.

Pressure to Conform

The modern dating scene often seems to revolve around alcohol and casual drug use. Social norms may encourage you to participate in activities that you're trying to avoid. This pressure to conform to conventional dating rituals can be overwhelming, making you question whether it's feasible to date while staying true to your sobriety.

Uncertainty about Disclosure

You might wrestle with the decision of when and how to disclose your sobriety to a potential partner. The fear of being judged or rejected once you reveal your journey can create a sense of vulnerability that's hard to ignore.

Remember that these concerns don't diminish your worth or your potential for fulfilling relationships. Instead, they highlight the importance of approaching the dating scene with a sense of self-awareness, caution, and a commitment to your well-being. 

Being Upfront About Sobriety

Honesty is the foundation of any healthy and meaningful relationship. So unless you’ve found a match on one of the sober dating apps (where someone might already have an idea about your addiction and recovery) you’ll need to disclose your recovery journey upfront.

Being open about your sobriety from the beginning demonstrates your commitment to transparency. It sets the stage for open communication and trust with potential partners. It also prevents conflicts and misunderstandings down the road. It’s better to address potential issues at the beginning of a relationship rather than later when emotions may be more deeply involved.

Sharing your story is not easy. It requires a level of vulnerability and can make you feel exposed and susceptible to rejection or criticism. You may also encounter judgment or misunderstanding from potential partners. Not everyone has a clear understanding of addiction and recovery, and this lack of knowledge can lead to misconceptions or misconstrued judgments about your journey.

But the best part about sharing is that it helps you filter out those who aren’t compatible with your lifestyle and values. If someone cannot accept or respect your commitment to sobriety, it's a clear indication that they may not be the right match for you. The same applies to those who are judgmental or skeptical. 

Again, when you're honest about your sobriety, you're more likely to attract like-minded partners who share your values and respect your journey. This increases the likelihood of building meaningful and supportive relationships with those who appreciate and support your commitment. Upfront communication also helps you avoid situations that could potentially trigger cravings or temptations. It sets clear boundaries and expectations with your partner, reducing the likelihood of uncomfortable or risky situations arising. 

Empowerment through Prioritizing Personal Well-Being over Societal Pressures

When you prioritize your personal well-being over societal pressures, you’re able to express your true self, build resilience, and affirm your self-worth. In doing so, you not only enhance your dating experiences but also strengthen your commitment to a fulfilling and sober life. Prioritizing your personal well-being over societal pressures:

Tips to Ensure That New Relationships Support and Honor Your Recovery Journey

If you find a perfect match and wish to take the relationship to a whole new level, there are a few things you’ll need to set in place to ensure the relationship supports and honors your recovery journey. Here are some tips to get you started:

If the relationship becomes overwhelmingly challenging or jeopardizes your sobriety, consider seeking professional guidance from a therapist or counselor who specializes in addiction and relationships. You can also consider getting help if you’re struggling to stay sober or make healthy relationships

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Why Do I Keep Relapsing On Drugs?

If you wonder why you or your loved one keeps relapsing on drugs, you are not alone. Relapse is common among people seeking recovery. Statistics show that approximately 85% of recovering addicts relapse within a year following treatment. For this reason, there is a need for a long-term drug relapse prevention plan.

Although society deems recovering addicts who relapse as not having enough willpower, you mustn’t lose hope. The National Institute on Drug Abuse acknowledges that addiction treatment involves altering deeply rooted behaviors. Therefore, relapse on drugs or alcohol does not mean that the treatment failed. 

The first thing you should do after relapse is to forgive yourself or your loved one. This way, you will have a more positive attitude that will, in turn, help you in your addiction recovery journey. The next step would be to get treatment for the substance abuse. After that, start a drug relapse prevention program. 

Most treatment programs offer relapse prevention programs to address the issue of relapse by teaching you techniques to prevent and manage its reoccurrence. This way, you can successfully achieve long-term sobriety.

Common Reasons Why Addicts Relapse

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Addiction recovery differs from individual to individual. When you’re addicted to illegal drugs, they take control of your life. Consequently, you may not make healthy and logical choices.

Addiction treatment requires time and effort. Being in a treatment program doesn’t mean you will no longer crave drugs. However, you will actively find ways to avoid substance use and address underlying issues. You will also receive treatment for health problems you acquire when addicted to drugs.

Although the causes of relapse differ from person to person, there are a few commonalities. Here are some common reasons why addicts relapse:

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Signs That You Are On The Verge of Relapse

Below are signs that you are on the verge of experiencing a relapse:

  1. You stop making an effort to maintain sobriety. Recovery is an ongoing journey. For this reason, you need to go out of your way to ensure you stay sober. If you no longer do, you are likely to relapse.
  2. You romanticize your addiction days. If you think of your substance abuse days as good days, you may relapse soon.
  3. You try to reconnect with friends from your addiction days. Reconnecting with friends from your substance abuse days will likely lead to relapse.
  4. You now consider drugs or alcohol harmless. This is a dangerous sign of relapse.
  5. You become selfish and moody. Behavior changes are a substantial danger sign of relapse.
  6. You embrace an unhealthy self-righteous attitude.

Dangers of Relapse

Most recovering addicts assume they can quickly achieve abstinence after relapse. Unfortunately, this is not the case. The more you relapse, the harder it will become for you to get sober.

Often, your relapse lasts longer than your recovery. Relapse may also become permanent.

Relapse is dangerous for several reasons. Here are a few of them:

 

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What To Do During Recovery To Prevent Relapse

To prevent relapse during recovery, you should:

 

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If you feel yourself slipping into a relapse, you should seek professional help. Relapse shouldn’t make you give up on your journey to recovery.

If you feel close to relapsing on drugs or need someone to talk to, contact More Than Rehab for help. We have highly qualified experts that will do all it takes to get you back on track and in control of your life.

You can live a happy, healthy, drug-free life with the proper support and treatment.

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Holidays 2021: A Guide to Avoiding Relapse Triggers

The holidays are a time when most people reunite with friends and family to celebrate. It is considered a time to drink, eat, and be merry.

Unfortunately, the holidays can also be stressful for people in recovery, and the chances of addiction relapse are relatively high. Emotional relapse may make any recovering addict turn to drugs or alcohol as a coping mechanism.

Some common holiday triggers are:

Holiday triggers can easily make anyone in recovery return to drug or alcohol abuse. Luckily, we have a few tips that go a long way in preventing relapse during the holidays. These tips will help you stay sober during the holiday season.

Wake up every morning with the decision to stay sober

Every morning, make a conscious decision to stay sober. Plan how to avoid any triggers you may encounter that day and what you’ll do if you get any cravings.

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Eat healthily

Ensure you eat healthy during the holidays. Staying hungry may result in low blood sugar, which may, in turn, make you more irritable. When you are irritable, you become impulsive and may end up relapsing. Be sure to have a snack with you when on the move and snack every few hours.

Avoid high-risk situations

Evaluate every situation and decide whether they are high-risk or low risk. 

If you are in early recovery, it would be best to avoid high-risk situations. If you must, try to leave early.

It would also help to know your triggers for you to avoid them. Some of the most common triggers are anger, loneliness, fatigue, and hunger.

Make a point of taking care of yourself both physically, mentally, and emotionally. Not doing so may lead to physical relapse or mental relapse, which may in turn, lead to alcohol or drug use.

Carry your own drinks to parties

Most office and family parties have non-alcoholic beverages. However, it wouldn’t hurt to bring your own non-alcoholic beverages. If the party you’re going to will serve champagne, you can carry flavored sparkling water to sip on as other people drink their champagne. Other alternatives are juices or sparkling cider.

Carrying your drinks helps you avoid the temptation of indulging in the alcoholic drinks that are often served at holiday and Christmas parties.

Bring a sober friend along

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If you’re lucky enough to have a friend staying sober during the holidays, keep them close. A sober friend can keep you in check. If you feel the need to drink or get high, your friend will talk you out of it. Additionally, you’re less likely to feel the pressure to indulge when both of you are drinking non-alcoholic beverages.

Have a schedule

You may notice that over the holidays, most therapists cancel their sessions during the holidays since they either want to go on vacation or be with their friends and family. When this happens, you may not have sessions as often as you are used to. 

Try making a schedule of fun things you can do in your free time to keep yourself busy.

Learn to say "no" (politely)

Sometimes, you may not be ready to share details of your recovery journey with friends or family. Therefore, you need to learn how to politely decline their offers without giving out too many details. Practice your responses in advance so that you’re ready when they question you. For instance, if someone offers you drinks, you can decline by saying that you are the designated driver.

Volunteer

Volunteering during the holidays is an excellent pastime for people in recovery. You can choose to volunteer at a local shelter, food bank, or senior living community. Other than keeping you busy, volunteering can help remind you of how lucky you are.

Don’t isolate yourself

Although avoiding holiday parties and people seems like a good idea, it isn’t necessarily. Don’t isolate yourself by staying indoors. Spending too much time in isolation may lead to a relapse.

Try to choose events you can comfortably attend and make time for your friends and family. Show up for office parties and family events, but ensure you don’t relapse.

Have a support system

As mentioned earlier, the holiday celebrations and stressors can be relapse triggers. Having a strong support system can keep you busy and accountable throughout the holiday season. Support system can be your loved ones or peers in groups like Alcoholic Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous. 

According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, these groups complement and extend the effects of professional treatment. If you don’t have a support group or if you have travelled to a different city or state for the holidays, check this site for organizations and support groups in your area.

When the craving kicks in, move past it

Cravings will likely kick in during the holidays. The trick is to stay strong and not give in since the urge will pass after a few minutes. Talk yourself out of it, move to a different venue, meditate, or even just take deep breaths. Do whatever you have to do to move past your cravings. You’ll realize that the more you beat your cravings, the easier it becomes in the long run.

Approximately 21 million Americans struggle with substance use disorders, and during the holidays it could be especially tempting. Due to holiday triggers, the relapse rate for people in recovery is typically much higher.

If you’re having a hard time staying sober during the holidays, know that you are not alone. It would help to reach out for extra support during this season. Try booking extra therapy sessions, going for extra meetings, or even starting a new course of therapy. This way, instead of relapsing, you’ll end the year on a sober note.

If you or anyone you know is struggling with substance abuse or experiencing a relapse, contact us for safe and secure addiction treatment. You can also call us at: 1-888-249-2191. We are open 24/7 and have several treatment programs approved by the National Institute on Drug Abuse to help you get back on your feet. Our supportive and caring staff will walk with you, every step of the way.

You can also look at resources on the American Society of Addiction Medicine website.

Why Do I Keep Using Meth? Ways to Stay Clean

You’ve gone through recovery, and things are starting to fall back into place. But for one reason or the other, you slip and end up using meth. So, you start over again, only to find yourself in what feels like square one – using meth, yet again.

So, now, you can’t help but wonder why this is happening. Why you keep using meth despite your desire and effort to quit. Well, if it’s any consolation, you are not alone.

Many people who struggle with meth addiction end up relapsing even after rehabilitation. According to the National Institute of Drug Use, 40 to 60% of people in recovery end up relapsing.

After a relapse, you may experience feelings of regret or shame. You may also feel like throwing in the towel and giving into your addiction instead of fighting the desire to use. Depending on how long you’ve been using, you may suffer from meth mouth and this can also worsen your feelings of shame.

While it’s devastating, you should know that relapse doesn’t mean you are a failure. It doesn’t mean the rehab you underwent was unsuccessful or negate your previous efforts to stay clean. But it also doesn’t mean you should take advantage of the situation and continue using.

Why does relapse happen?

Your relapse has to do with neural pathways. A pathway forms when you do something right. A pathway also forms when you do something wrong, like use crystal meth.

Human beings build habits this way, both good and bad. So, the reason you keep using meth is that you’re likely going to slip back into existing neural pathways. Let’s break this down further.

Causes of relapse

Studies show that the initial target of highly addictive drugs like meth is the brain’s reward circuit. The reward circuit registers essential experiences and events and their adaptive value. Then it provides incentives for actions.

This reward process triggers the release of the neurotransmitter dopamine, a feel-good hormone that tells the brain to do it again. When used habitually, meth depletes the supply of dopamine and interferes with the feedback between different brain parts that coordinate desires with expectations and priorities.

But these changes are not necessarily the problem. Quitting meth use temporarily can be easy. You can go for days, weeks, months, or even years without meth. What makes permanent recovery challenging is a drug-induced change that creates lasting memories.

Your brain already knows the rewarding experience that comes from drug use. After a period of use, your environment becomes marked with cues or reminders of the reward. This learning is referred to as behavioral conditioning. And since methamphetamine addiction weakens your self-control and ability to make the right decision, you’re likely to keep using even when you know that a reward isn’t coming.

As you’ve learned from support groups like Narcotics Anonymous and Alcoholic Anonymous, it’s the first drink that gets you drunk. So, a small dose of crystal meth serves as an effective cue. But places, things, and people, too, can be cues associated with meth.

An animal struggling with substance abuse will slip back to using when it goes back to the cage where it first developed the addiction. For people, triggers could be environment, the sight of paraphernalia, mental health issues, peers and so on.

Withdrawal symptoms are also a common reason many methamphetamine users relapse. Symptoms like anxiety, fatigue, sleepiness, depression, psychosis, meth cravings, etc., may linger on for weeks or months, causing relapse.

Getting back on the road to recovery

Irrespective of how committed you are to lifelong sobriety or how diligently you pursue recovery, there’s a chance of relapse. The National Institutes of Health study notes that about 40-60% relapse within a month or more of treatment. Another 70 -90% will relapse at least once.

But the good news is that the risk diminishes with time. Extended abstinence does predict long-term recovery, according to an eight-year study on nearly 1200 addicts. In fact, if you can make it to five years of sobriety, then your chance of relapse is less than 15%.

Ways to stay clean

Get help from a reputable addiction treatment center

Recovery for meth addiction needs a holistic meth treatment plan that consists of detox, therapy, and counseling. Depending on the circumstances recovery may also include medical advice. Meth is one of the hardest drugs to overcome. But treatment facilities in central Texas exist to help people like you regain control over their lives.

Such facilities will also address underlying issues that cause the relapse. For instance, they may offer family therapy that helps your family members to understand that relapse is not a sign of weakness or lack of morals. They will also offer mental health services to address psychological issues that may cause relapse.

Know the triggers of relapse and avoid them

Understanding the triggers of relapse and having a plan for those triggers are the first steps toward prevention. Triggers include things like:

 

Create new habits

Old habits will most certainly lead you back to addiction. So, you want to come up with new ones that will help you grow into the person you want to become. You can try out a new hobby, take up a new class, exercise, etc. Trying a new activity gives you something to look forward to. It also reduces the cravings and withdrawal symptoms that may lead to relapse.

Like other chronic diseases such as asthma and heart disease, treatment for drug addiction isn’t a cure. It only allows you to counteract the disruptive effects of addiction on your brain and behavior and regain control of your life. But with these tips, you should be able to manage your addiction and relapse problems successfully.

How Can Relapse Be a Part of Drug Recovery?

There’s a lot to feel good about when your loved one goes through an arduous recovery journey and then comes out clean and sober. Sadly, even after rehab though, your loved one may relapse at some point. Relapse doesn’t happen to everyone in recovery, but it does happen to many people. That’s why newer schools of thought on addiction feel that the painful occurrence of relapse is actually a very important part of the sobriety journey. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, 40-60% of those recovering from substance use disorders will relapse during their path to recovery. This should help put the struggle of your loved one doing illegal drugs into perspective, that they aren’t alone.

Addiction is a chronic disease or mental illness whose nature is a barrier to sobriety. Your loved one, like other patients, faces a consistently high risk of relapse because addiction alters the brain’s function and structure. Alcohol and drug use trigger dopamine production in the brain’s reward pathway. Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that regulates the brain’s pleasure and reward centers and emotional responses. These changes influence the way the brain prioritizes what’s important.

The brain of a patient who has developed an addiction recognizes substance use as important – even more than survival. That’s partly why those struggling with addiction take risks to continue abusing substances. Addiction also affects the prefrontal cortex – a part of the brain that identifies issues and plans solutions. So when a person relapses, it’s not because they are weak or lack morals, but because of something that’s way beyond their control. And even after treatment, some of these changes might persist.

What is relapse? 

Relapse is when someone goes back to using drugs or alcohol after a period of sobriety. The person may “slip up” and have a drink (or use a drug) and then stop again. Slips are hardly seen as relapses, but they can trigger stronger cravings for harder drug use or more alcohol. On the other hand, full relapse is when the person in recovery intentionally seeks drugs or alcohol and no longer cares for their treatment.

Is addiction an incurable disease?

The National Institute on Drug Abuse in the United States indicates that people in addiction recovery have a 40 to 60% chance of relapse. This puts addiction relapse at the same level as other chronic conditions like hypertension and asthma, which have a 50 to 70% relapse rate.

According to NIDA, addiction has no cure. But it can be managed successfully. Like other chronic illnesses, there’s medication to address the problem. However, the patient may need to go through lifestyle changes, routine maintenance, and checkups to prevent relapse. They also have to learn new ways of thinking. All in all, relapse is not failure. It only shows that it’s time to reinstate, adjust or try out a new treatment.

Relapse as part of the recovery process

Addiction is a chronic brain disease with biological, behavioral, emotional, physical, and social aspects. It is characterized by an inability to control drug or alcohol use. The chronic nature of addiction makes relapse part of the healing process as opposed to failure. As mentioned earlier, drug addiction disrupts brain circuitry and causes dependency. At this point, one is bound to experience side effects like drug cravings and withdrawal symptoms when they stop using. Unless they use their substance of choice, they may not feel “normal.” Relapse may seem like an excellent way to get back to “normalcy,” combat intense cravings, and relieve withdrawal symptoms. That’s why relapse can be a form of self-medication.

Drug relapse is a common part of the recovery process. When it happens and is handled correctly, it can strengthen one’s commitment to long-term sobriety. Recovery is the journey of maintaining long-term sobriety, reaching new goals, and facing life with new, healthier strategies. A hitch on the road doesn’t mean that all is lost. Yes, it might feel overwhelming – but with the right help, your loved one can get back on the right track.

Strategies to avoid relapse or mitigate its effects

More than half of the people in recovery relapse. But the fact that it is common doesn’t mean that you should not try to prevent it. An addiction relapse not only undoes the hard work, but it’s also potentially life-threatening. Relapsing can result in binging that can even lead to overdose. Here are some strategies to help prevent relapse or mitigate its effects.

Reaching out for help

People in recovery often feel humiliated and devastated when they slip or relapse. So, the last thing you want to do is reprimand them or come out as judgmental. You also don’t want to leave them to their own fate. Instead, try to encourage them to go back to their support network or treatment. It doesn’t matter how many times one relapses. In fact, experts agree that one is likely to have a successful long-term addiction recovery when there is more repetition of positive reinforcing habits.

Attending long-term treatment programs

Recovery from alcohol and drug addiction is not a quick fix. A single medication or a month of therapy may not guarantee a clean life. Often, one may need to engage in intensive long-term treatment, accompanied by continual support for a better outcome. A study with 1000+ addiction patients discovered that relapse rates reduced for every nine weeks a person spent in treatment. Sustained recovery also increased in the study for participants who had ongoing treatment with aftercare.

Identifying and managing triggers

Treatment programs integrate therapies that teach patients how to cope with internal and external stressors that may trigger a relapse. Mental health issues like anxiety, stress, depression, and mood changes tend to co-occur with substance abuse. When someone in recovery gets anxious or stressed, they may crave, think about, and eventually use substances. Triggers can be specific – like certain places or people, or very general – like hanging around people who are using. Evidence-based therapies help those in recovery recognize their personal relapse triggers and even train them to cope.

Lifestyle changes

Managing triggers is a great relapse prevention strategy. But you also want to encourage your loved one to make positive changes over the long term to build a healthier life. They can learn and use healthy coping mechanisms for negative emotions: recognize and manage mental issues: and develop positive activities like meditation, exercise, or art.

More Than Rehab is here to help. We have decades of experience in treating addiction, from the root-causes, to the after effects people experience once they become sober. If you, or a loved one needs help with their addiction, please don’t hesitate to call us! We are available 24/7.

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5 Ways to Conquer Drug Cravings

When you have a substance use disorder or an addiction, one of the hardest things to do in life is quit using drugs and alcohol. One of the main reasons for this is that you will begin craving the drugs or alcohol, almost immediately after you decide to quit. So, what are some good ways to conquer drug cravings, while you’re in recovery from your addiction? To start, understanding your addiction and the reasons why people begin using drugs and alcohol is a great start.

Unfortunately, millions of Americans struggle with addiction to drugs or alcohol. It is estimated that more than 21 million people in our country suffer from an addiction or substance abuse problem every year. To make matters even worse, out of those 21 million people, only about 10 percent of them will ever receive any help or treatment for their disorder. Furthermore, nearly 1 in 8 adults in the United States is considered an alcoholic.

Additionally, drug and alcohol addiction may be of even more concern today than it has been in the past  because of the Coronavirus. The Coronavirus has not only caused issues like the forced shutdown of many major businesses, closures of public school, and mask mandates, but also an increase in things like alcohol sales, recreational drug use and even relapse rates. This was particularly an issue when the pandemic first hit because those in addiction recovery were left without a lot of their support system when AA meetings and NA meetings stopped, and counseling services shut down, along with being laid off or sent home from work.

Hopefully though, now that we are all a bit more used to what daily life looks like while living during a pandemic, we are able to better adjust. Today, there are things like online virtual counseling sessions and social distancing that allow us to still get access to the fundamental building blocks of a support system. All of these things are extremely crucial to a successful recovery from addiction. Even without the Coronavirus, relapse among those with a drug or alcohol problem is very common, with around a 40-60% relapse rate. This is in part due to the drug cravings, relapse triggers and withdrawal symptoms that are often experienced while recovering from a drug or alcohol addiction.

To help with this, we have put together this list of 5 ways to help conquer your drug cravings, so that you are at a lower risk of relapse.

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1. Understand What Cravings Are

First, it is important to understand that your cravings are an entirely normal experience. Just about everyone in drug and alcohol recovery will get them at least one time or another throughout their sobriety. Cravings are classified as an intense urge to use drugs or alcohol. While they are a completely normal experience, (especially in the early stages of recovery), it does not mean they will last forever. Not only will they eventually go away with enough time in sobriety, but the typical craving will likely only last around 10-15 minutes. In the event that you have delayed the craving for some time and you’re still feeling it, then it is likely you are still around the stimulus that triggered the craving. Relapse triggers are identified as the stimulus (person, place, thing, feeling, etc) that triggered the craving in the first place. Cravings and triggers are a result of altered brain functioning and chemistry that occurred because of the drug or alcohol addiction. Over time, your brain will learn to stop associating these triggers with drugs or alcohol making your recovery and sobriety much easier.

2. Identify What Your Triggers Are

As mentioned earlier, a trigger is a stimulus that causes a craving for drugs or alcohol. So, being able to identify exactly what it is in the first place that made you crave drugs or alcohol will be extremely helpful. While a trigger can be anything for anyone, they usually fall into a few different categories. Pattern triggers are places or things that you associate with past drug or alcohol abuse, such as your favorite bar or even something seemingly innocent, like seeing a spoon. Social triggers are people or even groups of people that bring back memories of past substance abuse issues. There are also emotional triggers, such as a cause for celebration or the pain of losing a loved one. Withdrawal can even be considered a type of trigger, as this process usually results in the body feeling like it needs these substances in order to survive.

3. Avoid Relapse Triggers, or Find Ways to Deal With Them

Once you have identified your triggers, it is best to come up with a plan to try and avoid them. If you feel triggered every time you drive by the street your old hangout used to be, then simply try taking a different route instead. Stop hanging out with friends that you used to do drugs or drink with, especially if they aren’t supportive of your recovery. Of course, not all triggers can be avoided, like spoons. When it comes to triggers that you have no way of avoiding, come up with an action plan that you can easily use to help fight off the craving, remember they only last around 10-15 minutes once you have gotten away from the stimulus.

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4. Take a Walk or Exercise

If you do feel that you are about to get a craving, try going out for a breath of fresh air and taking a light walk. Almost any form of exercise will help you fight the craving, but many agree that walking takes the cake when it comes to beating drug cravings. Getting out in the fresh air and taking in the world without a real sense of where you are going can be a huge relief for people experiencing drug cravings. Just remember to try and avoid any places that might trigger you even further. If you are unable to exercise or walk, just getting out in the sun and breathing some fresh air can definitely help.

5. Reach Out To Others

Part of a successful recovery is having a strong support system. Trying attending an AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) or NA (Narcotics Anonymous) support group and reach out to some peers who know a lot about how you are feeling. Chances are they know exactly what you are going through and will offer advice that can help. If you have a sponsor or a counselor from a treatment group, then reach out to them. There is almost nothing worse than trying to go through life on your own, especially when you are learning to do it without the use of drugs or alcohol.

If you or a loved one are struggling with relapse, drug cravings, or need help getting sober, please reach out to our family of highly trained addiction specialists at More Than Rehab. You are certainly not alone, and we are here to help 24/7.

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Why Do People Get High?

In today’s crazy world it may seem like more and more people are reaching for drugs and alcohol to get high, in order to help them cope with the struggles of our "new normal". Thanks to the Coronavirus pandemic that our country is still facing, alcoholism and relapse rates are once again on the rise. Unfortunately, this is due to a multitude of different reasons like self-quarantine, isolation, boredom, change in routine and schedule, closures of local AA or NA support groups, and even having kids home full time, or being around your partner 24/7. All of these are stressful situations which could lead even the strongest willed person to have their long-lasting sobriety to come to an end.

Though COVID-19 has certainly caused a surge in relapse rates, alcoholism, and drug use, that certainly doesn’t mean that substance abuse problems weren’t a problem before 2020. In fact, it is estimated that every year, nearly 21 million Americans will suffer from a substance abuse problem of some kind. With so many people affected, it may be easy to wonder why do people get high in the first place? Well, for someone who has ever struggled with an addiction firsthand, they may know that sometimes the answer to that question is simple… But sometimes, the answer to that question is much more complicated. While we certainly cannot find one or two primary reasons people choose to get high, we can isolate some of the more common reasons people turn to drugs or alcohol.

Here are some of the most popular reasons why people, especially teens and young adults, get high:

Boredom

We are all pretty familiar with being bored, perhaps today even more so than ever before with practically everything moving online and becoming virtual. Sometimes, when a person is left to one’s own devices, it can be pretty easy to see the temptation in trying drugs or alcohol just for the sake of having something to do. That is why drugs and alcohol are so dangerous around young teens and adults because they are particularly susceptible to boredom.

Curiosity

We have all probably heard the saying, “Curiosity killed the cat” -- and while trying drugs and alcohol likely won't kill you the first time, it still most certainly could. With dangerous drugs like fentanyl being laced in some common street drugs, a drug overdose death is more likely now, than ever.

Beginning with something as simple as wanting to know what it feels like to be high or get drunk, can end up leading someone down that path of a lifetime of hurt caused by an addiction to drugs or alcohol. If curiosity ever strikes, it is best to remember that there is no way to tell who will become addicted to drugs or alcohol and that even one time could lead to an addiction.

The Desire to Belong

As humans, we all have an innate desire to fit in or belong. For teens and young adults, this is even more important. According to a recent survey, nearly 29% of teens said they had tried drugs or alcohol because their friends were also doing it. It seems that friends can play a huge role in determining whether or not a teen or young adult will eventually try drugs or alcohol for the first time. The same can be said for older adults as well, something as simple as changing jobs and getting asked to go out for drinks with your new coworkers and agreeing, even though you have been sober for a year, could potentially be a huge relapse trigger for anyone.

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Peer Pressure in Social Situations

Along the same lines as the desire to belong is peer and social pressure. A lot of times people, especially teens and young adults, try drugs or alcohol for the first time because of pressure from their peers. Even though someone may initially say no to using drugs and alcohol, pressure from friends can eventually make them give in for fear of being ostracized or outcast. In turn, they may continue using drugs or alcohol even if they don't want to, simply out of the fear of rejection.

Trauma or Abuse

Any past or current trauma and/or abuse, such as a sexual assault, a car accident, childhood neglect, or emotional abuse, can lead anyone to trying drugs or alcohol. Traumatic events can imprint on the memory, making it very difficult to get past the experience. Oftentimes, people get high in an attempt to escape having to deal with the painful emotions associated with the experience.

Career Pressure

Teens and young adults are not the only age group that can fall victim to addiction from environmental pressures. For instance, career pressure can drive someone of any age to get high on drugs or alcohol. A lot of times, people tie their self-worth into their career and if they feel as though they are not living up to their potential or are struggling to meet demands they may turn to drugs and alcohol in order to make themselves feel better.

Dealing With Grief

Losing a loved one is a devastating feeling and grief is an especially painful experience. Living through a loved one’s death is an especially difficult time for people and no two people grieve the same. Unfortunately, many people who are undergoing grief may want to get high, in an attempt to forget about the loved one’s passing. However, while this is normally just a short term coping mechanism it can turn into a life-long problem for those who are not careful.

There are many other reasons why someone may want to get high from drugs or alcohol.

Usually, the reasons are psychological, mental, or physical. Some people use drugs or alcohol in an attempt to self-medicate some sort of mental illness like depression or insomnia. There is also no way to tell who will become addicted to drugs or alcohol, so it is best to try and steer clear of all illicit substances when possible.

If you, or a loved one, are having difficulty with a substance abuse disorder, then we are here to help. Reach out to us today and let our family at More Than Rehab help take care of you, or your loved one who is struggling. We have years of experience and knowledge when it comes to treating substance abuse disorders and many of our staff have been where you are before, so we know what it takes to lead a healthy and fulfilling life of sobriety! Call us anytime. We are available 24/7 and we hope to hear from you soon!

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